What?! You’re not an American Idol, A Real Housewife of Atlanta,  America’s Top Model or A Swan? You feel like The Biggest Loser because you don’t Think You Can Dance, be Flavor Flav’s eighth baby-mama, or be chosen as The Bachelorette to marry someone you barely know?  And you didn’t rack up a perfect score on your SATs?

Well, that means you’re A Survivor of one of the most disgusting trends ever seen in cultural shaping that seems bent on taking the place of God and Universal Spirit in determining human worth. Might this be a way to eliminate competition – sort of along the lines of Cinderella’s step-sisters?

As therapists, we are ever confident that with luck, our training and God’s help, we’ll convince you that you indeed all came to the planet with the Light with which all souls are ignited.

Every one of us of every color, size, shape, nationality & income level has a number of special qualities, talents and gifts. Every one of us has a few flaws. No one can take any of these normal components of life away from you. It is your task in life to passionately celebrate and share your gifts and gently work on reducing your flaws. It is no other human being’s right to decide that you are not good enough. Notice that what one person doesn’t like, someone else loves.

The key, maybe, is to utilize your gifts where they will be appreciated.  Understand and be clear about who you are and don’t be talked out of what you do well. If no one else pats you on the back, make sure you do it for yourself and you’ll notice The Universe creating opportunity for you.