In a time like this, one thinks about the books, written long ago, that seem to have foretold this moment
M. Scott Peck was a theologian and psychiatrist whose words over three decades ago seemed applicable to a tiny slice of America. Now, those same words outline clearly a sizable chunk of our country and the psychological deficiencies that fit the descriptions he gave.
Now that racism has come out of the closet, there is the question of how to approach it. As black folks, many of us have been waiting too long to turn big, bright lights on it. Something so big, that we have been walking around, climbing over and burdened under all of our lives – we want to expose all the ugly, huge extent of it. Blacks are too (?) angry about it and naturally want to throw it in the faces of those who’ve taken advantage of us, dismissed us and simply lied about us. Especially those who’ve accepted the lies unquestioningly. Whites, say they feel suddenly exposed and wanting to not be blamed for accepting “privileges” that they didn’t realize are not afforded everyone.
Confrontation rarely causes people to immediately give in, admit guilt and sin no more. Trying to convince, educate and persuade really rankles many black folks. “Why should I have to teach you how to not be prejudiced?”, they moan. And they are right. Fairness, empathy and truthfulness are the expected behaviors that mark one as human. How do you get people to recognize the suffering of others and actively work to correct the laws and social customs that cause it?
Author Celeste Headlee has some great ideas. She focuses on a logical and valuable technique for getting people to change their minds. It’s a tool that all of us can use. One wants to do what works so that we can quickly reduce the spread of racism by those who use it as a political tool.
“Race makes itself known in crisis, in the singular event that captures a larger pattern of abuse and pain,” writes author Jeff Chang (Can’t Stop Won’t Stop, Who We Be) in the introduction to a series of essays on the significance of ongoing police shootings, social inequities, housing discrimination and campus diversity.
As an historian, Chang helps us focus on the broader picture (and effects) of the long-term system of racism and how it has played out and continues to develop in our country. Chang touches on Trump’s speech in Mesa, Arizona (December, 2015), demonstrations in Ferguson, MO (where he was arrested for participating) on the anniversary of Michael Brown’s death, and the effects of gentrification to produce a powerful punch through the veil of denial that shrouds and nurtures systemic racism.
“They Can’t Kill Us All; Ferguson, Baltimore, and a New Era in America’s Racial Justice Movement
By Wesley Lowery, Publisher: Little, Brown.
Something big is happening across the country and Washington post reporter, Wesley Lowery, is documenting it. From Baltimore to Oakland, Ferguson to New York, Seattle to Miami, unarmed black men and women are being killed by the police. The stories are starting to sound the same. The policmen “thought” they saw a gun, which turned out to be a book, a cell phone or simply a hand. Guns and knives were “found” near the body but many victims were shot in the back. Two weeks pass, the story falls out of the headlines, the world moves on. The story repeats itself in another city, with another mother’s son or daughter and another community is devastated and hardened.
Wesley Lowery has conducted hundreds of interviews, following these shootings during 2014 and 2015 from city to city. Against the backdrop of the first African American president, these shootings are increasing. Many were documented in cell phone videos yet 97% of these killings resulted in no charges against the police.
Mr. Lowery is a member of his newspaper’s Pulitzer prize-winning team and focuses in with precision clarity on a wave of assaults against the black body that Ta-Nehisi Coates outlined earlier in his book, “Between the World and Me”.
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