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Rape & Sexual Assault

Impact

Recovery

Resources

Is destructive to a person's self-esteem
Leaves elements of guilt, shame, fear and anxiety
May result in unfair self-questioning

Ruins the natural sense of trust in relationships

Results in long term feelings of being unsafe

Results in withdrawal, denial, suppression of memories and feelings, numbness

Results in feelings of worthlessness and sometimes hopelessness

Requires talking about your feelings, exposing your experience, asking for help, to be listened to, to be acknowledged and validated

May be slow and seem very difficult

Comes in gradual steps

Is improved by having a support group

Is always supported by God and the Universe

Is aided by protection by those close to you

Local city, county and state hospitals, clinics and womens' services

Rape crisis centers and hotlines

Mental health associations & suicide hotlines

Hospital emergency rooms

Crisis walk-in clinics

Books and self-help workbooks

Crisis Intervention:
New York Coalition Against Sexual Assault: www.nyscasa.org/rape_crisis/national/states.cfm provides a listing of rape crisis centers in your state
Individual Treatment Providers:
African American Therapist Directory
Also,
The following providers have training in techniques that are especially effective in reducing the fear, anxiety and depression that result from rape and sexual trauma:

New York:
Doris Bryant, CSW, 718-707-1436
Dr. Janice Montague, 212-947-7111, Ext. 134
Dr. Paul Spivey, 212-873-4803 (treats male assault victims)
Mary Pender-Greene, ACSW, 212-632-4613

New Jersey:
Dr. Abisola Gallagher, 973-783-3870
Dr. Charlene Sears, 973-744-8725
Dr. Dan Williams, 973-675-9200
Dr. Denise Johnson, 973-675-9200, treats adolescent offenders

Online Information:
Broken Spirits Network: www.BrokenSpirits.com

Rainbow Hope for lesbian survivors and their partners: www.RainbowHope.org

Silent Witness Project: www.SilentWitness.net

www.SoulSurvivors.com

Helping Male Rape Victims:www.callrape.com/Malehelp.htm

CAVNET, (Communities Against Violence Network), Washington, DC based international network:www.cavnet2.org

National Crime Information Exchange - information on sex offenders registry, etc.